What’s a Cock Teaser?

Cock Teased yet?

Many times in my life, I’ve come across a different set of women who have very different looks yet all of them attractive in their own way.

I won’t deny that I would have had been tempted to skirt chase (if they wore a skirt) some, if not all of them because it’s just something fun to do out of boredom. During the course of my pursuits, I usually try to keep my head above water preferring to just keep myself afloat whilst diving in once in a while to get my head wet and blow some bubbles before resurfacing to catch some air. I’m not a diver, professionally and metaphorically speaking but perhaps the experiences of my dad who was a professional diver gave me the depth I needed to see of what any diver could expect (he never spoke of it metaphorically, only professionally).

As a professional diver, we’d be trained to learn about the dangers of what to expect of the undersea and we’re put through a multitude of tests before being certified as a professional diver but even the most professional divers, may not be able to handle certain situations that they come across whilst diving that they have not been trained for. Having a cool head does but not many has that.

As a metaphorical diver under the context of relationships, we are not trained about the dangers of what to expect whilst undersea nor are we put through tests before being certified ready to dive. No one ever is. We have only been certified ready to create babies the day we realize our sexual organs are fully functional (erection and semen secretion for men, having menses for women) but, that still doesn’t mean we are ready or are equipped with the dangers of what a relationship entails.

Like the undersea, there are the known and the unknown.

The known are the beautiful undersea creatures that we can learn to appreciate and gawk over whilst the unknown is the fact that some of these beautiful undersea creatures possess a certain in-built mechanism in them that when attracted, may result in a multitude of illnesses including fatality.

The world above sea level is also similar to the undersea.

Like the undersea with it’s known beautiful creatures, above sea level we also have a variety of human beings called women who are beautiful and attractive in their own way. And just like the unknown, some of these beautiful and attractive women when attracted, would release an in-built mechanism that they possess either knowingly or unknowingly, which could result in a variety of issues both good and bad.

These issues are physical and emotional excitement if it’s good whilst emotional and mental distress if it’s bad.

Very often as well, men are brought into a fantasy wonderland where all they can see are Mickey Mouse, Minnie Mouse and a whole lot of balloons but they fail to realize that they were sitting on a roller-coaster all the while.

One of the most silent killers of these women that no men could ever prepare for enough is the one who comes equipped and then presents itself beautifully and attractively only to mislead you – THE COCK TEASER.

Whilst there are many variations as to the meaning of COCK TEASER (click here) , the one in description here is simply ‘a lady who makes friends with a guy, gets him mentally excited either physically or emotionally about the possibility of getting into either an emotional or physical relationship ONLY to deny him when push comes to shove’ – Abdillah Zamzuri’s definition.

I can hear some you going ‘OH MY GOD! YAH!’ and some of you going ‘EH? REALLY?’, either in agreement or questioning yourself (if you’re the guy) if the one you are going out with today is a COCK TEASER.

Whilst the men are going like that, the women are probably going like this, ‘DAMN IT!’ or ‘HMMMM….’, either because you know you are one or you don’t know you are one but you are guilty of such actions.

Honestly, this COCK TEASING issue is something that we can’t avoid.

Women can have their reasons to say NO (either legitimately or not) after all the signals they been giving the men and the men can also have all their reasons to ask WHY after all the positive signals they been getting from the women.

More often than not, the victims are always the men and quite honestly, there’s really no way to avoid this issue.

The only the way is to get involved and finding it out for yourself or to listen to someone who’s not involved but is able to provide you with a good analysis of the situation.

I’m dedicating this to entry to my Buddy, Sam.

To those of you who want to know how COCK TEASING works and/or how to identify one? That’ll be in the next entry.

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One thought on “What’s a Cock Teaser?

  1. Can’t help but to comment that guys do that to girls too! I think it’s a mutual thing. Players exist within both genders. Some of them just find the thrill of the ‘hunt’ exciting and refuse to go further than that.

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